I hate to admit that my bedroom is pretty spartan. It always has been. Part of it is because for years my disposable income has gone toward my kids. It still does.
Sure, there’s that girly side of me that likes light and bright, but not too frilly, floral or delicate. But ideally, the boudoir space I’d like to create would be elegantly and indulgently gender-friendly for both me and my lover … a place we could both consider a comfortable and sexy retreat.
The other night I came across bedroom magic by isbel’s Pinterest page and got inspired to start working on my private hideaway. Of course, some of these ideas would require winning a Lotto jackpot, but like I said before, still, I dream.
I realize this looks pretty spartan, the look I’m trying to get away from, but it reminds me of a tent bungalow my lover and I stayed in for a weekend at Costanoa Lodge in Pescadaro, Calif. Think of it as staying in a tent with a heated queen-sized bed. (Even in the summer, the nights can get cool when the fog decides to overstay its welcome.) It was a wonderful place to retire after spending the day in Santa Cruz and evenings lounging at the outdoor fireplace and drinking some wonderful reds from Napa to the north. If I had a room like this, I’d love to have the windows open in the summer to have a warm breeze caress our skin after we’ve fallen asleep.
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Normally this would be a bit dark for my taste, but I love the decadent elegance of this room. Plus, I love the mirror and the placement of it. I could just imagine a lot of long evenings of slow and luxurious lovemaking here.
I could do without the curtains hanging around the bed, but I love the blend of classic and contemporary in this room, especially with the warm brown on the walls. I would also lay a large ultra-plushy or shag rug under and surrounding the bed just to soften the look just a little and so my bare feet wouldn’t hit a cold wood floor when I stepped out of bed. This is the kind of room I could imagine spending many sexy evenings but also those times to read erotic stories and poetry to each other or watching romantic movies together.
Speaking of watching romantic movies together, I’d love to get cozy in a room like this with it’s lots of pillows, the bean bag (I’d want two), and the oversized armless chair (which has some comfy possibilities for girl-on-top sex). I’m not crazy about all of the white in this room, it’s too sterile, but some depth of color on the carpet and the walls would make this room even cozier.
And, oh, that padded wall. It looks like some solid soundproofing for some crazy sex.
This just might be my favorite and most doable room. I love having a glow of candles of dim lights while making love in the evening. The lighted tree shadowing the bed, below, would also make for a magical place to tumble on the sheets.
I got distracted and found myself on iamclairebear’s tumblr page where I came across this edgy and feminine find. I love the mix of 1940′s movie starlet glam and with the 1970′s modern touches. I also love the mix of the harsh charcoal gray, the stark white, and the kinky and slightly garish splash of purple. I know I would be pushing it with the ornate oversized headboard, but perhaps a little cushion or the pushin’ might be a valid justification for a compromise. then again, this room is all about compromise.
My dream bedroom would be an en suite with a deep, generous tub for two. This one is bigger than I like, but if the sky was the limit, I’d love to have to have a great, big view of the sky and something scenic.
Here’s to pushing limits … in sex and in decorating!
To see more of my dream bedroom finds, check out my Dreamy, Sexy Bedrooms page on Pinterest.
Wednesday, November 18, 2020